Relationship Readiness Reflection
A conversation guide, not a pass/fail test | Suggested ages 13–18
Biblical foundation: Proverbs 4:23; 1 Corinthians 13:4–7; Galatians 5:22–23
Guiding principle: Before preparing to find the right person, grow into the kind of person who can love responsibly. There is no universal dating age.
Reflect together
I know my worth does not depend on romantic attention
I can accept “no” and respect another person’s boundaries
I can handle disagreement without threats, insults, or control
I can speak honestly with a trusted adult about uncomfortable situations
I understand our family’s expectations about dating and digital communication
I can recognize pressure, secrecy, isolation, manipulation, and coercion
I can maintain friendships, education, faith, and responsibilities
KINGDOM ROOTED · Relationship Readiness Reflection
Conversation prompts
Safety note: A child or teen is never responsible for abuse or coercion. Seek protective help when safety is at risk.